Quote: I asked her, is it even a remote possibility that the tone and aggressiveness I receive are unique behaviors towards me? Is that even a possibility? My W responded without answering that question, but by saying that she was sorry for treating me in a manner that made me feel that way. I said thank you for the apology.
Again, pretty good stuff overall, but this exchange still proves that you are trying to verbally figure her out too much. Just observe and remain silent for awhile. You still talk too much. It's a gift I share with you, but I learned VERY early on that without fail, when I felt the biggest urge to talk, I should shut up, at least at the point in the sitch you are at.
I am glad things are feeling better for you. Keep it up!
