Quote: I really should have elaborated when I used the term "revenge". I don't necessarily think she is consciously thinking "I'm going to make him pay". I think it is more like she doesn't want to deal with the pain so she is distancing herself from it by going hog-ass wild.
I certainly see her running like hell away from her pain/feelings and from me by association. She seems to have enough gas to keep running for a long time unless God intervenes.
Quote: Her exploits to date seem to all be rather shallow and that only adds to the suspicion that she is out of touch with her feelings (the drinking helps tremendously - is she still doing that?).
They seem shallow to me also. She's trying to distract herself from her true feelings and that's understandable, but not necessarily sustainable. Her drinking seems to have mellowed out. I hope it's not just a show for me.
Quote: What is her sitch like with OM?
According to my sister, she seriously dating someone. In her state, I don't believe it's sustainable either. It's all fantasy; not real.
Quote: Her friends all seem to be folks that will accept her living this way...basically like a teenager. Does that sound right?
Yes, they will. She only keeps friends who champion her regardless of what she is doing. NO questioning her allowed. No true friendship. Just a lot of a$$ kissing. But, it seems to work for her.
I have LOTS to post later about my new work troubles in working for her judgemental family. Sucks, but it's all true.
