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You asked if it is possible for your wife to be in MLC. Sure it is. But I don't think that is what you are dealing with.


Any thoughts on what it might be? I know you don't know her at all. I am interested in your thoughts though.

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As far as turning in any papers that would get the divorce process going, I wouldn't. She should do the work if she insists on following through with the D.


The snag is that we went to a mediator and she turned in her portion of the paperwork. I was served by mail and I am expected to return the papers to the mediator to effect my "service" of the papers and start the D stopwatch. Problem is, I don't want a D! So, at this point everything is waiting on me. I do know that she can go and get a lawyer and do this on her own. I know she already feels angry toward me and will feel moreso if she feels I am not cooperating. But, I am not interested in the degree to which she hates me, if you know what I mean.


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