Question: Do you think it's possible for a 31 yr. old to suffer from a MLC? My W is deathly afraid of getting older, as is her mother. My feeling is that she has felt like her youth is running out and she wants to go out and be a girl instead of a woman while she still feels like she can. Now, with my A she has her "perfect" biblical reason for a D, or so she thinks. My understanding of the Bible and God is that both always promote redemption, restoration and reconciliation. It is also my understanding that the biblical reference to infidelity being a reason for D is for the protection of the S who has a habitually, unrepentant, unfaithful partner.
But, perhaps my understanding of my W and my understanding of the biblical references to infidelity are flawed by my involvement in my own sitch. I don't know. But I do know what I believe.
Today, as my faith grows stronger, the enemy recruits more troops for his war against me, my W, my M and my family. The great thing is that the enemy does not seem to be touching my d5 directly. However, indirectly, he does in an insidious way. Her whole world is turned upside down and blown up. I feel for her. I am fighting to stay strong for her. Tonight, before I read her children's Bible to her we prayed. She prayed for the usual 5 yr old stuff and then prayed that daddy would not stay (get) divorced and wouldn't lose his stuff. My D5 is so innocent and such an angel. Knowing my sitch is affecting her so badly kill me.
I am still holding the papers that need to go back signed to the mediator. I have already spoken to the mediators office and they are in no hurry to proceed. Plus my W has not asked me about the papers in several weeks. Am I being a snot by not running down there to turn in the papers since I DO NOT want this D?I mean I will turn them in, but I am in NO hurry to get a D.
Amy, one more thing. Would you mind linking your original thread here for me. I feel the need to get to know you and about your sitch better. Thanks.
