Quote: Ok, so one month ago (when you said this happened) she was able to express her anger and pain verbally, now she is acting on those feelings. The point is that she still has strong feelings, although negative, that are motivating her. They are still feelings primarily about YOU and what YOU did, not really about her and when she REALLY wants. Like most WAS & some LBS's I think she really just wants the pain to go away, and that means you right now. It won't always be that way.
I hope and pray for what you say to become a reality; at least the part about my sitch not always being this way. What is most confusing to me is that she is so confused by her hurt/pain. I get a lot of her allowing me to be near her followed by pushing me away and isolating herself from me. I hope that she does get in touch with her feelings. Perhaps my GAL and moving into my own place this week will allow me to pull back and allow her the needed time and space to process and heal. For now I work to nurture my PMA and keep my head on straight and above water. Thank you, my friend.
