Quote: Anyway, HH, fire away. Give me something to chew on...what is the issue of the moment to you?
My most pressing issue is gathering the strength to pull away from my W and love her from a distance. She is off doing what she is doing believing what she is doing is right. I know, in my heart of hearts, that this house of cards and lies she has built around herself is going to come crashing down on her head like a ton of bricks. I strive to be able to be there for her to lovingly pick her up and nurse her back to health both physically and spiritually from her misguided dance with the devil (no, not OM, the actual devil).
Tell me that my staying open to reconciliation and continuing to love my W is the RIGHT thing to do! I know that the great GH will always steer me to the patch of right and righteous (whether he says he believes in righteous or not). You, kind sir, are my Jiminy Cricket, my conscience, like it or not. Stay with me in my battle to defeat the enemy and re-claim my W.
Tell me, as Queen Amy does, that I need to strighten my spine and stand up for myself and STOP taking "stuff" from my W because of my guilt. I am changing every day. I know that what I did was wrong. I am working to make amends, but keep reminding me that being a whipping post is NOT making amends, it's making myself a punching bag and a doormat and who the hell wants to have THAT for a H?!?!?
Quote: P.S. Thanks for the kinds words as usual...BTW, isn't there something about nice guys finishing last and never with the girl? Hmmmmm...
I have heard that baseless saying, but I intend on finishing FIRST and KEEPING MY girl!!! I know you do too, my brotha from anotha motha!
