Thanks for the replys,I have not had a OR talk since I don't know when.We went out to eat again last night,me,xw,kids and a friend everything went ok.I did ask her out and she said she didn't know,so when we got home last night I called her and told her that I really hoped she would go out and that I was ready for this to go forward and to please let me know today.I don't know why she won't go forward.We have spent time together everyday and we have had no problems.About everything she has done is not typical for an XW to do.She still has most of her stuff at my house,she stopped the lawyer from taking $ out of my 401 she pays for alot of stuff when we go out to eat,we see each other almost everyday and she has been the one to call and ask me.I don't want to hear "I just want to be friends"so should I just keep going like it is or back off and make her pursue?
