Am I wrong for being mad about my W deciding on her own to introduce her BF to our children after only 6-8 weeks of "knowing" this person? I am trying to get a sense if I am way off base in being bothered by my W deciding to disregard OUR agreement to keep OM/OW away from our children for a LOOONG time before we introduce our children. Is 6-8 weeks a long time to be dating someone to make the choice? Maybe I am the one who has mucked up thinking.