Hey WrongTurn, thanks for stopping by. It is wild how different but yet the same all of our situations can be. I think it's because even though the circumstances may be different, humans tend to be so similar in the way we react to things, at least as far as feelings go.
It's good that you can see the shortcomings you have/had that may have contributed to the downfall of your M. I'm just such an idealist....ya know, now that we all understand what we did wrong, can't we come back to the table, re-deal the cards and try again? Guess it doesn't always work like that huh? Even if it could work that way, both parties would have to be willing to step up and admit where they went wrong. It seems that for every marriage, there is one partner who won't own up to their own crap. It's frustrating.
Anyway, thanks again.
"Happiness is a butterfly, which, when pursued, is always just beyond your grasp, but which, if you will sit down quietly, may alight upon you."
Even if it could work that way, both parties would have to be willing to step up and admit where they went wrong. It seems that for every marriage, there is one partner who won't own up to their own crap. It's frustrating.