Thanks Violet, I just don't know I guess I need to pratice that part of DBing where when they start pulling you towards them because you pull away you don't run to them.I ask her if she wanted to go out to dinner this weekend and I don't think she will but I guess I'll have to see.I told her it might be best to just go to dinner a couple of times so that we didn't have a long evening together,she just said we'll see.I ask her to let me know one way are the other but most of the time I don't but ussually she will invite me over sometime later.What to do?