Quote: But I can't change who H is and I can't accept him the way he is either. No amount of Dbing will do either of those things for me.
I agree with the first. You can't change H.
But you can accept him as he is. It's a question of whether you will do that. You know a lot of reasons why you might, and a lot of reasons why you might not.
I hope you're still getting some IC for yourself. You have a lot of conflicting influences right now.
Again I wish you some peace,
Joe
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