I wish you some peace. Karen said, "He is a hurt guy. He was probably hurt by someone long before you two ever met..." and I remembered saying something like that in Annapolis.
If H can't bring himself to change for the sake of your M and your family, you can't make him. I won't advise you to end your M. My advice is if you do make that decision, be sure you have a lawyer. I have no doubt that H would strike at you through your children if you are not very careful.
Peace,
Joe
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