An A is not the only way someone can "unchoose" someone else.
true. the point of my comment was sharing his feeling, on her comments about choosing. she has one, he has one too. the feelings are not wrong, but we need action to change them.
but I can think of worse things. Im curious what that is. I could deal with anything else x threw at me, except this. killing a family member, would probably be up there. I know now I cant, know exactly what I will do in the future.
this issue is also a thorn to you BF, and I'm sorry if I twisted that thorn thoughtlessly everyone knows what I think about A's. Im very understanding and tolerant of those who want to fix it and move on though. Im not very tolerant of limbo land, internal indecision, no matter what shape it takes. feelings are great. feel them, enjoy them, make note of whats causing the bad ones, but dont let them run you.
but I'm getting the feeling that the crosstalk and noise is deafening the main issue ditto.
