I'm not so sure it was resilience as much as no idea how to fix it and too chickensh!t to make a stink about it. It didn't help that her cousin was taking MrsGGB's side and telling me things like don't make it harder on her, she's already got her hands full with the kids etc. Bad advice like that, she didn't need.
For me, WWME was the last ditch effort, I had my walking shoes on, and the doorknob in my hand when we went.
