"Limbo, to me, is the just the absolute worst... far worse than he!!"
MEGA FCUKING DITTOS ON THAT!!!!!!
Sorry, Sheriff Chromie got a little excited. I'll make sure he stays in cage where he belongs.
And big dittos on what you said earlier about marriage NOT being a test to see how far one can be pushed and still remain faithful. Yes, an A is an awful thing. But the abuse and neglect that sometimes set up the conditions for an A can be just as bad, if not worse.
Heather, I haven't had my moment of utter clarity yet either. I feel like I am getting close, and that feeling of getting near the edge is almost more terrifying than not knowing. But you know, as bad as weeks of crying, fighting, anger, and all that is, it is still better than hearing my W say (as she did a few months ago and again recently) "I don't know if I will ever be able to be affectionate or intimate with you." And for you not being able to share the marriage bed or garner minimal respect. We're both in limbo now, fighting for our emotional survival. But with a huge dose of strength and our last breath, we'll make it. OK, I'll stop being so melodramatic now. Somebody kick me and tell me to shut-up.
Chrome
"Recollect me darlin, raise me to your lips, two undernourished egos, four rotating hips"
