Quote: As far as making a decision and THEN asking for advice, I won't go that far, because the whole thing is a process and reaching that decision is often very painful, as you know.
Oh my God, yes. I did not communicate what I meant clearly. Perhaps those who have hit the edge can help me explain what I mean. Balto is going through this right now... Karen went through it once... GEL went through it. I know there are others. You went through it as well.
It's the 'sh!t or get off the pot' moment. And when you hit it, it's a solitary experience. The questions you ask before you hit that moment are all geared towards rationalization, kwis? Once you decide, the type of questions you ask are different.
If I am coming across as judgmental, that is not my intent, and I apologize. It is indeed scarey and confusing. That fear and confusion can keep you in limbo for years, and many hear can attest to that fact. But... limbo wreaks havoc on an you, your kids and your M.
Oh, god, I'm rhambling... sorry. Heather, I hope I didn't come across harsh. Limbo, to me, is the just the absolute worst... far worse than he!!, for at least then, you know what you are dealing with.
