hey heather. I devoured the website Mrs nops offered to you, on P/A. Trying to work on it in myself. I do well with it, untill something like an A occurs. Then its ridiculously out of control.

some Examples. wife starts EA, I drop ALL boundaries with her even though its the exact opposite thing to do. <BF--swing in the wind b!tch> Quit job that I/we strived very hard for, when I got the 'to little to late' speech. <BF OH Yeah! You dont care huh. Ill show you. *snaps fingers*, eight years of life efforts gone.> Saying 'whatever you want' to
e v e r y s i n g l e question asked, when she tried to speak to me days before D, after PA and second seperation. (women love that comment. makes them hot. Not. )
Ironically many P/A style interactions are very effective when creating attraction though. *sigh* Enough about me.

Found another article, at the end it talked about a woman who is able to stay out of her husbands P/A.
Thought you might like it.

P/A