Last night went well and yesterday the XW even came by the house and asked me to lunch and then wanted to talk to me and get my advise on a business venture she is thinking about so we had a very good talk and I just showed her support,this should be a big change she should see.Always before I would have told her she was crazy for taking a risk.She did tell me last night that she thought she was going through menepose but she didn't think she would go to the Dr. and get it checked out.This should be good I hope