Well she invited me over for supper again tonight.last night when I was there she just kind of brought up that she was going to be pretty busy this week having to make a cake and getting ready to help with a fund raiser.She makes wedding cakes on the side and she does this fund raiser every year.i thought it was good that she said that because it was kind of like I won't have time to do anything so don't be disipointed.I am trying really hard to just back off,I wish I would have done it sooner,I wish everyone that is just starting out could figure this out sooner and most of all I wish I would have found this site when I first became S.I pushed her so far that she was threatening me and calling me names every night when she called and thats when I told her to just sign the damn papers so now she says that I was the one that pushed the D through.I will not screw this up.Great to hear from you Violet,how are you?