It was kind of weird because living in a small town we all grew up together and partied together.My XBIL drank quite a bit and she didn't like it so they split up and she moved in with another guy,he stayed friends and then he was in an auto accident and that was when she said she realized that she still loved him and he quit drinking and they got back together.Now she is the one that parties all the time.Should i ask her out at all since she said she wasn't an asker and told me to ask her?I have been backed off all week and she hasn't wanted to do anything this week when a couple of weeks ago we were together several nights and she even got frisky a couple of times nothing happened just flirting.I don't get her