Randy,
I agree with Testa an JJ. You need to back off a little and give her room to make her decisions. She is the pace car in this race. Sit back and enjoy the scenery on your journey to reconciliation. What you learn now will be a tremendous asset later on.

Remember....slowlee.. [Wink]

Just a side note: You had mentioned on my thread that your XBIL and his X remarried after 4 years. I'm curious how this came about.

Phil