Thanks guys,I know thats what I need to do and I am bound to try alot harder.It would be so much easier if she didn't work 100 feet from my office but then again as small as this town is thats almost all the way across town.We see each other everyday even if it's just driving down the street.She told me to keep asking her out because she wasn't an asker so do I back off that too and when she gets desperet enough she will call.She did ask me to go with daughters on field trip with school,she will ride bus and I will drive with youngest d.She says she is trying so I guess I have to be the one to decide to stay or go.