Another new twist now even after telling me a week ago to keep asking her out she said I was pushing her this week when I ask her out.Now i got an invite to my XSIL B-day party and I know XW will probaly be there and I don't know if I should go.it will be a big drunk and I know I would have a hard time dealing with her being drunk and any other guys around.In fact there is probaly only one way I would deal with it.Tonight when I ask her out and she said no I scewed up and told her she had to at least try and she said again that she was.I told her I didn't know how long I could do this without something regular from her(not sex) and she said that if I couldn't wait till she was ready then she must not be the right woman for me.WHAT?That came from my XW who still has all of her stuff at my house and ask me everyday to do something for her and stopped her lawyer from taking the money out of my 401K.I need to know do I go dark or what?
