testa I know that I need to give her space and I do try,but the other night when we were talking I asked her if it bothered her if I ask her out and she said no that she wasn't an asker so I needed to and that if she didn't want to she would just say no.We went out to supper this last weekend with another couple and the kids and it was great.Then she asked me to come over and mow her lawn and I ate dinner again there sunday.She is just so confusing sometimes.