Randy,

You be learn to handle rejection my friend. This is a time for your growth, learn to accept rejection, maybe ask yourself why do you feel rejected. This is one area of your growth. Think about it, if you overcome this you will be at a better place. The other area for growth is to detach from her even further, no calls my friend. It's ok, just because you detach does not mean you do not love her. It's the opposite and once you begin you will understand what I'm saying. This is a time to grow. Stop controlling her, show her change in you. She must committe to you on her own, but hsi will be from how you change. She will not go back to the same ol, same ol...
What if she is torn right now between starting w/ someone new or going back to you...give her a reason not to start new...CHANGE!!!


Doug Robinson