I would really like to take her on a adult date but the big thing I see that affects her most is if she says she isn't ready I just let it go and praise her for considering it.I just tell her thats ok when you are ready you will know it and we can go then.I do need to remember that the time that we spend together counts as quality time and may be more valuable to our relationship.I have to take it slow and that is so hard as everybody knows.Several weeks ago during one of tough times I asked her if she wanted to act like we were D and she said that she hoped that I could give her some time so I told her I was in this for the long run and yes I would give her time.Have a good day everyone
