RELAX and be PATIENT. You are doing great. Pull back the reigns of control. This is a process and you can't control it. You are in a very good place. You both share the kids and she has things at the house. This means you both are very much connected. Learn to be confident in yourself and stop acting ridiculous. She loves you and you are the FATHER of her children. Woman are not like guys, that means a whole lot to her. She loves you more than she could love anyone, now believe that. What if you knew that she will return to you, you would be much more relaxed and happier. Do you need that to happen in order to feel more confident in yourself. What if you felt that way right now, would it make her come back sooner. Yes it would because you be more attractive to her. The key is your confidence, learn to accept and to give in not control it. Let your wife decide without any intervention from you. Would you like to be controlled and manipulated? You have all the signs of this happening. Start treating her and yourself as if you were back right now. How would you be feeling if you two were back. Start working on it now, leave the door wide open for her.
