Sorry, haven't been on much... And sorrier to hear about the little soldiers. Ugh. H does sound like he is pretty unhappy. What are the chances of MC? I've forgotten if he is just totally opposed.
Anyway, I still think it would be a good idea for you to understand your legal options, even if you don't want to take the step of confronting H with them. I really think it is important to feel some freedom in your R, to not feel totally trapped. I don't see how you can ever have a chance of feeling better about the R otherwise.
