Quote: I already see many of the things I have done to contribute to our trouble M. It is kind of hard to discover these though when she is more concerned with OP and A. I also know what she has done to hurt our M pre A. That is the reason I want the A over is so that we can go forward together and work on those issues.
Ah, and it seems each day brings some new, often simple and obvious revelation about this process. You've just given voice to that which I have felt for a long time but never really managed to articulate.
THIS is the ultimate tragedy of our sitches, one that is often hidden by rage, jealousy, sadness, despair, anger, and hopelessness. It's only when we stop feeling so much of those things, REALLY learn more about ourselves, that we realize that we have SO much more to give to them, and they to us but now it seems too late. Now that we know. Now that we KNOW what we should have known all along, were cursed with no forum to utilize that knowledge.
