They jump right back into the "old" marriage without considering much else that was wrong with it other than that evil affair.
That is exactly what I don't want to happen. I want her to be able to see what she has done prior to A that was hurting our M. Without that there is not much hope in continuing on.
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"I really need to look at my marriage and see what I didn't like, what I could have done better, and how I can be a better man for everyone's sake, recognized or not."
I already see many of the things I have done to contribute to our trouble M. It is kind of hard to discover these though when she is more concerned with OP and A. I also know what she has done to hurt our M pre A. That is the reason I want the A over is so that we can go forward together and work on those issues.
"Our life is what our thoughts make it."
Marcus Aurelius
