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W has said on more than one occasion (always when she's had a bit too much to drink) and over the past, say, 6 years or so, that we're really good friends but NOT good lovers.





My H has recently said the same thing to me. THAT in itself really hurts and this I believe is the reason that we have not been intimate in a long time. Now how do we get over this rejection and show our spouses that we really can be good lovers?