Quote: GH, if I may ask, what inspired you to write that last post?
Some of shippd's posts over the past day or so, and my own general feeling reading some of the threads here. It's not an isolated feeling, sadly. I feel these sentiments coming from a lot of people.
What I hate is that somehow my sitch, or yours seems any better than anyone else's', or that WE seem better. They, and we are not. The only difference is that rather than focusing on the limbo, or what we don't have YET, we choose to TRY to focus on what we do have and continue our progress.
Quote: Unfortunately, I too relied on my happiness to come from my H. That is too much of a burden to put on someone. You have to be happy with yourself first and foremost before you can be happy with someone else.
Yep. I did this, and find that despite it all, I STILL do. It's sad really. I am trying SO hard to break this cycle but every time I get "comfortable" I fall back into this. It's the trap waiting there for us all. Resist it!
