Thanks. I think so. It's nothing I have not done in the recent past, but this morning, I made an effort to get a little closer, touch her a little less "Platonic" and up the "ante" a little more. I guess she noticed.
Oh, and something I forgot to post yesterday...
As I'm sure some of you know that Victoria's Secret is having their big sale right now. Well, I decided to go down there on my lunch Tuesday to see if they had any of my W's favorite workout gear on sale...and maybe some other things too. It was a madhouse, but long story short, I decided that now was the time to abandon the whole "PJ'S" buying at VC and get back to some more "fun" stuff that I have not bought her in a LONG time, predating even the kids. Don't know why I stopped, and probably made her feel like I didn't think she could/should wear sexy things anymore, I don't know. Sounds about right.
SO, I picked out some TINY little undies, the kind she USED to like to wear to *bed* and yes, one pair of her fav. PJ's.
That evening, she also went to VC before she talked to me so I ended up telling her I went (was planning these things to be b-day gifts) and told her I would give her my "gifts". She was surprised I had gone but seemed happy.
When we all got home, I gave her the bag. She LOVED the PJ's saying that those were what she wanted but they were sold out when she got there. Then she got to the undies, wrapped up in tissue. The first pair was pretty normal as far as her taste runs. The next two were NOT. First she commented on the price (didn't take the tags off...oops), saying even on sale it was a lot, and then on what there where. Something like "wow, um...". She was not exactly HAPPY but not unhappy either (you should know that what I bought her was right in line with what she USED to LIKE and pick out on her own back in the good ole' days). At this point I said "Look, I finally got tired of buying you stuff you'd expect to get from your mother. I used to buy you these things all the time..." she interjected an "I know, you USED to..." I continued "I don't know which came first, the chicken or the egg, did our intimacy evaporate before I stopped buying these things, or as a result of it? I don't know, but I do know you look hot and wanted you to have something that reflects that."
Anyway, she stammered, and made some half-hearted attempt to say she was just surprised but really like them. I think she was at a loss because she didn't expect me to either buy her something like that or say what I said.
Oh, and I refrained from adding any "and now I expect you to model it for me tonight" crap. She knows what I want, and I am not going to keep saying it, but I AM going to be DOING more. This is the first thing. More to follow.
