Hi GH, I don't think that I would say anything to your W about her drinking. Alcoholism runs in my family and any time I feel like having a glass of wine (which is not that often because of it running in my family) my H starts to sound like a father figure and this only makes me mad and I'll want to drink more often. Not to get drunk but in my way to say to him it's ok for me to have a drink every now and then, I can handle it and not have a "problem". My H is not drinker just like you. Would much rather have a glass of iced tea. So for sake of my Family and me,I don't drink. Just my 2 cents worth Lonelyinbed
