Yes i think that was kind of odd.My W got me one,a caring and thoughtful one at that.
Does your W still insist she is not seeing Om?
Also i remember you saying something about the Om's brother,and how somehow he is in the picture?
Cant say about you,but if it were me and my W said that she was trying to work things out with me,i would not see that as cutting ALL ties with Om,and surely would not be ok in my book.
You may have to refresh me on exactly where yall are at in your R.