Quote: Goal #1 should be: PMA!!! That is key to everything. Be happy!!
I agree. Revised. Goal #1 IS PMA!!!
Quote: Suggestion: Go get "How One of You Can Bring the Two of you Together" by Susan Page, it has really kept me on track last week.
Ok, but I have a lot of reading I am doing right now. I want to finish PM, which is slow going, before starting anything else. I WILL look into this on though. Thanks.
Quote: I did get a little sad yesterday at Great America (kept it to myself though), I would have loved it if my H held my hand or gave me a little kiss or showed ANY sign of affection. Don't get me wrong, we did have a good time but it was more like two good friends with their kids. (....sigh)
Yep. I get that feeling ALL THE TIME and no matter what I read to the contrary, I have to feel that for the most part, so long as we build on that to include intimacy and the other parts of a good marriage, that's a good thing.
Quote: Anyway, the expections are what is hurting me too, try to relax and let them go and accept your life the way it is. Remember the old saying "good things come to those who wait".
I don't know, I don't really accept MY life as the way it is. I can ALWAYS change MY life. I didn't used to get that, now I do. I do accept LIFE, in terms of the things I can't control, as the way IT is and in that respect, I know I can't rush certain things.
I agree, good things come to those who wait...but then again, you ever play hide-n-seek and hid so well that all the other kids just stopped playing and had moved on to cops-n-robbers before you even realized the game was over?
Sometimes you have to hide just a little more out in the open.
