Hey GH, It happened real early in my sitch,the ML thing,thinking back it was the first night back..though she hadnt asked me back yet,after that night i have never left. Yes it was me initiating..even talking her into it,she wanted to just hang out and have good time..she even went to the point of saying "so you want to have some meaningless sex"(granted we were really having a great time hanging out)I said yes...totally meaningless,,we are just having a good time right..were partyin right..anyway something like that,but yes i did have to convince her and i think it was very important for both of us..i guess making sure you both could have such a intimate time TOGETHER,her because of Om and me because of Om.I guess letting her know that you could as well without anger,so i made sure to make it a great time for her,and well..i never left after that night.Your W probably feels guilty and figures that will not enable her have a good time. Do you guys ever drink socially?Just something to maybe loosen things up a little.I dont know how that sounds,but i think getting that "first time" out of the way is very important. Just be Great
