Thanks. You 4 gave me a LOT to think about. I have had a CRAZY couple of days and it's not over. It's all about my W's case and really nothing about the R. I will post much more tomorrow.
Mama, I especially like what you posted in terms of the "positive" thinking making all the difference. I have believed that for a long time now but struggle at times to practice it. I will redouble my efforts.