Grasshopper, Then apply HER love language to the time before the conversation begins. This will up your chances. Be careful that it does not look like manipulation. Just apply her love language often will the conversation develops over days. She will know you care!
Bomb 1/06 D dismissed 11/07, attempt reconciliation. Premature. Divorce final October 31, 2008. OW looks like bad history. Over. Still hopeful. Baby steps. In R with my X.