GH Saga...it's all in my head?

[Holly06]

If she insists on talking about it now, be ready. Gentle and soft voice. Remember you do not have to finish the convo in 1 day, but stress that you trust the relationship to be able to handle this discussion. My brother (very direct and male) would liken it to the business world. He would preface the convo with, "Are you approachable today?" Speaking from a woman's perspective, that would be controlling and an affront, so do not try it. Just pick a time when she is more relaxed than not, but allow her to control some parts of the convo, like when it will happen. She will follow your lead in tone and pace. She needs control in this situation because whe may sense an attack comming, because she has behaved badly. She is waiting for this convo, and make it as painless as possible, will earn you big points. Check out Man are from Mars, Women are from Venus. There is a part in there about how to score points with wife, and how she can score points with you. Very true stuff!