Lily,

I'm crying now. Not bad tears. Little girl tears. You are a very insightful woman. You've touched me to the core. I can't thank you enough for the words your wrote. I am making him pay, and he doesn't deserve it. He is truely remorseful and has asked me to forgive him. The man who molested me was not remorseful and did not ask for my forgiveness. I cannot do this to H anymore, or me.

Like Pfroglady, you are a true inspiration to me. You love unconditionally and forgive unconditionally. Your H is another of the incredibly lucky ones. I think he's beginning to realize that, too. I've been keeping up with your thread even though I haven't posted a reply in a while. And I will continue to keep up with you and continue to pray for you and your H.

Andy,

I know you know. I'm so glad you're out there.

Matilda