If and when you start a conversation with W, make sure that you preface it with the plan that this will be a conflict, but that it is important for your relationship.
"W, I have some things to talk about with you. We may disagree, and continue this discussion over a length of time. But I trust, and hope you do too, that we will be able to work it out for our relationship to become even stronger. When is a good time for you sweetheart?"


Bomb 1/06
D dismissed 11/07, attempt reconciliation. Premature.
Divorce final October 31, 2008.
OW looks like bad history. Over.
Still hopeful. Baby steps.
In R with my X.