If and when you start a conversation with W, make sure that you preface it with the plan that this will be a conflict, but that it is important for your relationship. "W, I have some things to talk about with you. We may disagree, and continue this discussion over a length of time. But I trust, and hope you do too, that we will be able to work it out for our relationship to become even stronger. When is a good time for you sweetheart?"
Bomb 1/06 D dismissed 11/07, attempt reconciliation. Premature. Divorce final October 31, 2008. OW looks like bad history. Over. Still hopeful. Baby steps. In R with my X.