Awwww, always, it's a freaking love-fest around my thread today.
Quote: I also think that for W to feel your love, SHE needs to open her walls to accept it. This will come from forgiving herself, overcoming guilt, forgetting what she did (flashes/pangs of 'oh my God, how could I have done that.'), and then stop feeling like she alone was the victim in your M and to start looking at how SHE contributed to the demise. After all, your part was 50%.
Ok, here's one of my stumbling blocks...I don't really ever catch her in anything resembling 'oh my God, how could I have done that.' She may feel that way, but does not express it. I KNOW she will eventually have to visit her part of all this, and may well be doing that, just quietly.
Quote: This takes time, look how long it's taken you. Give her a chance. Maybe it'll go faster for her with your empathy and compassion, as UD states....whereas you gained this growth with her total rejection.
I believe that and I am going to try to approach things from this perspective.
Quote: Just remember, everyone, EVERYONE (including YOU), just want to be understood, as humans capable of mistakes, weaknesses and in the end, greatness for love.
