I'm starting to feel that it may be too late for us. My H has brought up the D word from the first night we were married.
He doesn't talk to me much - he no longer shows affection - after our second child, he told me I loved the kids more than him. He doens't do anything to make our love life better. Instead it's like he purposefully does things that will push me away. If I cry, which is often, he doesn't comfort me. He'll either yell or throw mean words my way and tell me it's my fault we are such a mess.
I feel really hopeless. I don't believe any marriage is perfect but he can't even appreciate the good moments we do have because he is always yelling about what we don't have. My needs aren't being met either, but I'm supposed to forget about his divorce and affair threats and hop into bed. I know he can tell when I'm not into it, but even when I am it's not like he makes me feel good about it. I can't win either way. I guess i should just let the D happen. My job is more stressful than his and more hours, but it seems like I'm supposed to forget about that and just do anything to make his life easier - including any form of sex whether I'm tired or not in the mood. I can't remember the last time he gave me a compliment - all I get our the negatives. Like I said, maybe I hsould let the D happen.
