Hi everyone - To make a long story short, I stumbled on SSM when I was looking for a way to find my libido. It went way down during my first pregnancy, came back slightly and then disappeared during the second. It hasn't come back. I've tried different gels, creams, hormones, whatever I could find, but now I feel broken. My H deserves more, but he hasn't always acted the best either. When he's not getting anything he'll yell, or he'll just bring up the subject a lot and then I feel pressured. Now, I don't much care if we do anything, and I mean anything, or not but I don't know if our marriage will last. He's come close to an affair once. We both love our kids, but can LL and HL be compatible? How do I get better? I am 30 but he's a few years younger than me. I love him, but I don't feel any spark. Help!
