quote:Originally posted by matilda April 13, 2002 12:58 PM onGlimpses of the Days of Rebuilding of Our World (Page 2): I wish he'd talk to me about his feelings once in a while. I told him maybe we'd be able to help each other better if he did. So far he's made a quick remark here and there. I haven't jumped all over it, so maybe he's getting the idea that he can actually talk about his feelings without me attacking him.
My comment:
I’ll tell you something about what stops me from discussing my feelings… Embarassement and humiliation. We all have done things we regret deeply. Those are the things we just want to forget about. My W has stated that she wants to be more open. There are, however, some things that I would discuss if she really wants to, but it would not be a “sharing” experience. You can’t really share humiliation.
Andy
[ April 15, 2002, 11:28 AM: Message edited by: ANS ]
