Pfroglady:: than you for being open & honest with me. I'm not sure if I can ever get over this. My H is still sure he wants to be with Maggot & hurts me in every possible way. I don't know if I love him enough to work through this. I certainly know it would take a lot. I have been DBing for 5 months now, but all I seem to have managed is to hold off the D or talk of it. I can't stay in limbo forever. I want my H to get through the fog so I can see where we are. I haven't been able to keep him from hurting me more. I wish their affair would die a natural death, but they are both in MLC & believe they are destined to be together - why don't I believe it? It just happened so fast - right out of the blue - he barely knew her & jumped right in after 30 years of total faithfulness. It just doesn't add up. I will try & stay out of their drama. Barb
