My original thread under MLC is 25th anniversary bust. Currently I post under Roller Coaster Ride. My H's OW (I call her Maggot) is one of the most manipulative you've ever heard of. Prior to stealing my H, she went after an old highschool BF (married) till his wife sent her packing. She also hit on her pastor after befriending his wife. She was a coop student at my H's work last summer. I'm told she hit on EVERYONE> Her H told me she is in MLC. She is unbelievable!. Tells everyone to leave her & my H alone in their little love nest. Tried to take out restraining order on my 19 yr old S & I because her H slashed her tire. (My Son & I would never go near their apt). It is the most unbelievable story. It is shocking to see my H & know what is going on. He hid it from me for about 2 1/2 months before I found a card from her to him. She "planted" eveidence for him to get caught. To this day he still hasn't figured it out. Education from me does not help things. I'm still waiting it out. I'm glad you said 8 to 9 months. I'm at the 9 month mark now. There might be a few "little" things going wrong, but it might just be wishful thinking on my part. Thanks for your support. Barb