I'm reading your posts with interest as my situation is very similar to Pfroglady's. My H's OW is ugly, a little on the plump side & 5 years younger than me. She is also married & has a 15 year old son. She is a WAW who left to steal my H & get an apt with him. My H is in MLC bigtime. My stories are posted under MLC. Married 25 years last July, H left in Aug. Affair started around end of June & is ongoing. We have 3 kids all at home. The whole scene is devestating. So, any idea how long these affairs last, or what causes them to break up. Pfroglady - how long was your H's affair? Any info you might have would be appreciated. Barb