Boy, what a cheerleading squad you guys are! You make me want to work harder so I don't let YOU guys down. I hope someday my H will appreciate how much you've all helped US through this terrible time.

Pfroglady, I'll think I'll check out that book you mentioned. Although I must admit everytime I hear words like "affair, infidelity, adultry" I cringe. I guess I still can't believe this is happening to us.

I think my PMA has risen a little since earlier -- thanks in no small part to my friends in cyberspace. Isn't it odd sometimes to realize you're revealing very intimate details of your life to a whole hord of complete strangers? I can't even discuss this with my best friend. Anyway, just kind of interesting, I think.

Wishing all of us better tomorrows.

Matilda.